THE ROAD TO SUCCESS IS NOT STRAIGHT

THERE IS A CURVE CALLED FAILURE….
A LOOP CALLED CONFUSION…
SPEED BUMPS CALLED FRIENDS…
RED LIGHTS CALLED ENEMIES…
CAUTION LIGHTS CALLED FAMILY…
YOU WILL HAVE FLATS CALLED JOBS BUT…
IF YOU HAVE A SPARE CALLED DETERMINATION…
AN ENGINE CALLED PERSEVERANCE…
INSURANCE CALLED FAITH…
A DRIVER CALLED JESUS…
YOU WILL MAKE IT TO A PLACE CALLED SUCCESS!

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The Picture I used in my previous post:

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Sometimes when I think about the future. I get really nervous. But, Then I remember who is really in control. Things happen for a reason.
THERE IS A CURVE CALLED FAILURE…. so we can get back to reality and know that we’re only human. A LOOP CALLED CONFUSION… not knowing exactly where to go and do is okay. Sometimes we just have to be confused in order to reach reason. SPEED BUMPS CALLED FRIENDS… friends may stop us from getting to our goals. There are people out there who are jealous and envy the things they do not have. RED LIGHTS CALLED ENEMIES… Those who want to get in our way of success. These enemies may have power and may not. But, there will always be people who will test your limits. CAUTION LIGHTS CALLED FAMILY… who are there to guide you in whatever you chose to do. This is a voice of reason, and a foundation of looking out for their loved one’s interest. YOU WILL HAVE FLATS CALLED JOBS BUT… IF YOU HAVE A SPARE CALLED DETERMINATION… sometimes we get a job or is close to it and may not have the ability to hold on. Or maybe getting burnt out while working for a company. But, there will always be determination for success. AN ENGINE CALLED PERSEVERANCE… getting through life INSURANCE CALLED FAITH… knowing that we serve a might God. A DRIVER CALLED JESUS… who will always be there with us on [my] road to success. He is my foundation and my strength the One where I know – believes in me and is watching out for me YOU WILL MAKE IT TO A PLACE CALLED SUCCESS! Something we all desire. I think in life big or small we reach our successes. Sometimes we may not know it and take it for granted but, it’s very important to sit back and relax – thinking about our goals and aspirations.

I just love allegorical maps like these, if only for their delightfully straightforward semiotics. This map of the Road to Success depicts an actual road, winding up to success signified by a lyre.

This (literally) lyrical prize is achieved by first entering the Gate of Opportunity. People are running through, but some have already settled in to the sit-down life of ease and comfort in what looks like the Beer Garden of Bohemianism.

Some manage to pass by those delights to check in to the Hotel Know It All, because they hold to mottoes such as Nobody can tell me, or I don’t need to practice, or I’m a born genius, or yet: I don’t need system.

Similarly misguided cries are heard on the patio of the Mutual Admiration Society: You’re the Hit of the Age, You’ll Set the World on Fire, You’re a Wonder My Boy, or (my favourite): Caruso Can’t Touch You.

Those who avoid those three establishments of ill repute might still fall victim to the deep, dark well of Illiteracy, or the spinning, disorienting wheel of Conceit. A select few manage to board the train called Right System at the Railroad Station.

That doesn’t stop some from running along the rail track towards Success, only to succumb to the ugly hand of Vices, the spinning fan of Bad Habits (blowing its victims towards Oblivion), or the pitfall of Bad Reputation. Others fall prey to Charlatanism, or get tangled up in the webs of Jealousy and Do It Tomorrow.

Those who overcome all these perils will enter the gates of System. But while the train crosses a bridge across the river Failure, those on foot are threatened by the Cauldron of Misrepresentation, and tempted by Short Cuts.

Some do manage to wade across the river to the other side, but there must overcome Bad Temper, Carelessness, Shiftlessness and Bad Memory. Then there’s Lack of Preparation, a giant rock which the train can tunnel through effortlessly, while the surviving pedestrians must trek across it.

Sprees, Laziness and Bad Business Methods then still threaten them, until at last they come before two gates, the one for Weak Morals remaining forever closed, the Gate of Ideals open to the train (and some on foot).

Conclusion: you can be successful without adopting the Right System, but your chances are far smaller. And you’ll have to make a lot bigger effort to get there.

Many thanks to Varun Chablani for sending in this map, found here on Moonbuggy. The origin of the map is not referred to, but judging by the artwork (and the moralising tone – not to mention the reference to Caruso), it’s early 20th century.

I am extremely happy.

life is grand.

I’m so happy you found me.

I’m trying this new thing where whenever I’m upset about a situation, I think of all the good things in my life that make up for that one situation. Often then I realize the situation is pretty insignificant in the big picture of mi vida. Back in the day, and I mean about a little over  four years ago or so, I would’ve gotten extremely depressed over this and felt all “My life sucks!” But I’m going to write down the positive things in my life that make up for this situation and then ask myself if my life sucks at the end of this.

1. I live in a first-world country.
2. My parents aren’t divorced.
3. I live in a great house.
4. I have access to a car if I need it.
5. I have an adorable boyfriend.
6. I am able to use the resources around me to further myself.
7. I go to a new place of worship.
8. I’m in a healthy relationship with a guy who cares about me.
9. I’m healthy physically and mentally.
10. I have a craz yet loving family I’m close with even though they may not live on the same continent as me.
11. I’m smart and pick up things easily.
12. I am able to teach and communicate with students on a level that even teachers are ‘wowed’ at.
13. My Education
14. I have a drive to succeed.
15. God.

Now asking myself the same question…

And looking up, I’d be extremely selfish to say my life sucks.

This technique has helped me greatly with my anxiety, over-thinking and depression. Intitally my way of thinking has gotten me through a lot – and I don’t understand people who say things like: i hate my life and rant about how much things are not working out for them. Get up and DO SOMETHING about it. I’ve been better at controlling my emotions as the years go by. Ican see how many things I used to worry about were trivial. I encourage all to do the same, whether you’re psychologically all over the place like me or have an interest in self-improvement. It could also be because I’m getting older but I’ve always known how to deal with things. Don’t sweat the small stuff.Ah, the things you wish you knew when you were in high school. *chuckle*

Many have informed me that I should “know my place” and what that place is. Interestingly, that place is always subservient to and to the benefit of the informer. Let’s trail blaze some new territory.